Things To Say To Your Submissive

Alright, gather 'round, folks. I've got some tales to tell about the art of communication in relationships, specifically, the fun and fabulous world of being a dom. Now, don't go running off, I'm not talking about whips and chains (well, not yet), I'm talking about the everyday, run-of-the-mill, vanilla stuff. You know, like asking your partner to pass the salt, but with a twist.

First things first: Consent

Now, before we dive into the fun stuff, let's get something straight. Consent is like the air we breathe, the water we drink, the coffee we need in the morning. It's the most important thing in any relationship, and it's non-negotiable. So, always, always, make sure you've got a big, fat, enthusiastic 'yes' from your partner before you start playing around with power dynamics.

Surprising fact alert!

Did you know that consent can be revoked at any time? That's right, folks. It's like a magic trick, but instead of rabbits, you're pulling out 'no's' from hats. So, keep your ears perked and your eyes peeled, because consent is a living, breathing thing that needs to be respected and cherished.

Now, let's get to the good stuff

1. "Could you...?"

Start small, my friends. You're not going to jump from 'please pass the salt' to 'please clean the entire house while I watch Netflix' in one day. Baby steps, people. So, try asking your submissive to do something small, like, "Could you grab me a beer from the fridge?" See, you're already sounding like a dom!

2. "I'd really like it if..."

Now, this one's a bit more direct, but still gentle. It's like you're making a suggestion, but with a hint of expectation. For example, "I'd really like it if you could make the bed before you leave for work." It's not a command, but it's not a request either. It's a sweet spot in between.

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3. "I expect..."

Alright, we're stepping up the game now. This one's a bit more assertive, but still not too heavy. It's like you're setting a standard, a rule, if you will. Like, "I expect you to have dinner ready by 7 pm." See, you're getting the hang of this!

4. "Because I said so."

Now, this one's a classic. It's simple, it's effective, and it's a bit cheeky. It's like you're reminding your partner that you're the one in charge. Like, "I want you to take out the trash because I said so." It's not about the reason, it's about the power dynamic.

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5. "I want..."

This one's a bit more intense, but it's all about the delivery. It's like you're stating a fact, a desire, a need. Like, "I want you to massage my feet while I watch TV." It's not a request, it's a statement. And it's glorious.

And a word of caution...

Remember, folks, this is all about fun and games. It's about adding a little spice to your relationship, a little excitement, a little power play. But it's not about control, it's not about manipulation, and it's certainly not about hurting or harming your partner. So, always, always, keep it safe, sane, and consensual.

And there you have it, folks. The art of communicating with your submissive, all wrapped up in a neat little bow. So, go forth, have fun, and remember, the key to a happy relationship is communication, consent, and a healthy dose of humor. And maybe, just maybe, a little bit of power play.